Perfectionism or Procrastination Justified

Some people like to tout that they are perfectionists. They can not leave a single detail untended. If something is out of place or just a little off, they must make it right before moving on.

Some people claim it’s a blessing. It’s what makes them so good. It also gives them the ammunition to criticize and tear down someone else’s imperfect work. But many times it keeps them from ever picking up their head and seeing the big picture. It keeps them from being satisfied enough to finish a project and ship it out the door. At it’s worse, it keeps them from ever starting.

I have perfectionist tendencies of my own, most of us that care about our work do. The key is to recognize perfectionism for what it is: a form of procrastination, a giving into Resistance, a justification that keeps you from facing your fears and completing a project.

There is no such thing as perfect. There is only doing the best you can in a given amount of time, with a given amount of resources. Then trying to do a little better the next time around. If you don’t impose time and resource limitations on yourself, your desire for perfectionism will get the best of you.

The best way to kill your perfectionist tendencies may be to purposely do a sloppy first draft. Make it bad, but make it nonetheless. Then you can go back and tweak it. Make it better. Not perfect.


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Immortals Rock Climbing Video

Draft edit of The Immortals Climbing Teaser with temporary music by Drist.

Thanks to:
Mark Johnson
Nick Army
Justin Wheaton
Justin Hesselbart


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Mastering this waking up early thing – 10 Methods

Photo by Alan Cleaver

The adrenaline rushes to your heart and a terrible sound fills your ears.  You jump out of sleep like a cardiac patient hit with a defibrillator.  Your alarm is screeching next to your bed.  It’s 5am.  It’s cold.  It’s dark.  You feel groggy.  You begin to reason with yourself that, “9 more minutes of sleep won’t hurt.” You hit snooze and pull your warm sheets back over your head.  All you can think of is getting back to your dream. ( Repeat for the next two hours.)

Whether you’re your own boss, you want to get up an hour earlier to do some creative work or you want to hit the gym before you roll into the office, your cranky and irrational morning-self can become a major obstacle to getting out of bed.  During predawn hours, even returning to a nightmare can feel preferable to facing the day.

I’ve had a lot of trouble with “waking up early” over the years. When you have a traditional job or a college class in the morning, the knowledge that someone is depending on your showing up on time can be motivation enough.  But when you’re working from a home office – which is most of what I’ve been doing over the last 3 years – someone has to create a routine and force you to stick to it.  That someone is you.

I’ve done a lot of experimentation with morning rituals and methods for getting my butt going in the morning.  When I put all of these tricks together I can consistently get myself up at 6am or even 5am.  If I start to get a bit lazy though, I quickly slip back to my habit of resetting my alarm and fabricating reasons to sleep in.  If you have trouble getting up in the A.M., then my advice is to put all of these methods together.  Even if you’re not a morning person, you can do this.

1. Plan your day in advance

This may be the most important key to early-rise success.  It’s going to be hard to get up and get things done if you are without a plan.  I schedule exactly what time I’m going to get up, and I allow for time to get dressed and get moving.  I carve out blocks of time for working on specific projects, and I account for meal times and gym visits.  I don’t like to get too specific on tasks, because I know that things never work out exactly as scheduled.  You must stay flexible.

Another little tip is to schedule your next day during the morning hours.  I’ve tried it at night, but I’ve found that if I’m tired and pressed for time, I end up skipping it and going to bed.  Bad idea, because the next day tends to fall apart and little is accomplished.

2. The art of setting your alarm

Most of you already know that having and setting an alarm does not guarantee that you will get out of bed in the morning.  There is an art to successfully using an alarm

First, disable the snooze option if possible.  Snooze is the devil.  It’s easy to get into a pattern of hitting snooze for an hour before getting out of bed.  This just deprives you of an hour of good sleep.  You need to either set the alarm later, or get up with the 1st blast of the alarm.  For safety I set 2 alarms about 10 minutes  apart.  No snooze!

Set your alarm on the other side of the room or in the next room.  It’s easy to turn over and hit the snooze or reset your alarm if it’s next to your bed.  Mine is in the other room, so I have to get out of bed to stop the noise.

Use a new alarm sound if you get used to the one you have.  My phone is my alarm, and every once in a while I like to change up my alarm sound.  I’ve noticed that once I start using the snooze or resetting my alarm, the alarm sound that I’m using becomes associated with the bad habit.  Change it up, and don’t hit snooze! (I’m currently using Eye of the Tiger as my alarm sound.)

Cover your alarm with a note to motivate you.  It’s just an extra layer of protection from your cranky morning-self.  Write a short note and put it over your alarm, so that you feel a bit guilty turning it off and going back to bed.  Mine has a little post it note that says, “Be A Pro.”

3. Have music ready to crank up

I always have some pump-me-up music queued on my computer.  That way I can rock out with one click of the mouse in the morning.  When you’re setting your alarm the night before, pop in a CD or setup your computer with some of your favorite music.  Put your alarm near your music source if possible.  This is all about making it as easy as possible to keep the forward momentum.

4. Set your clothes out the night before.

Decide what you are going to wear for the next day and place those clothes between you and your alarm.  I like to drape mine over my office chair and then use it to barricade the doorway to my office.  This way when I get up I know to put my clothes on before I even reach my alarm.  Once your clothes are on, you are committed to staying awake.

5. Keep water next to your bed

One of the things that makes you groggy in the morning is that you have become dehydrated during the night.  We breath out a lot of moisture over 6 to 8 hours.  Keep a nice fresh liter of water next to your bed and be sure to drink most, if not all of it, when you get up.  Even if you don’t think you need it, drink it.  Remember, you’re not going to be very rational in the morning, and water is good for you even if you do not feel parched.

6. Get enough sleep

None of this other stuff matters if you are constantly depriving yourself of sleep.  Most of us need between 6 and 8 hours of sleep.  Some may even need 9 or 10.  I know that I feel great with 8 hours of sleep, and that I can feel pretty good for several days in a row with only 7 hours of sleep.  Any less than that and I become groggy and ineffective.  If you want to get up early, you are going to have to go to bed early.  Simple as that.  Plan your bedtime and stick with it.  Your body likes consistency.

7. The art of falling asleep

Some people struggle with getting a good night of sleep.  I use to have a terrible time shutting my mind off at night.  Here are some of my tricks.

Play calming sounds to get to sleep.  For the last couple of years I have been falling asleep to thunderstorms and ocean waves.  Find a nature CD or download and put it on low when you get into bed.  These sounds will calm you and help drown out any other annoying noises that may keep you up at night.

Meditate to fall asleep.  If your mind is really racing, do a little bit of meditation.  Nothing crazy here. Just take some deep breaths and focus on the sensation of the air moving in and out of your nose.  Every time your mind begins to wander, simply bring your awareness back to your breath. You’re not trying to be perfect. Don’t worry if your thoughts keep coming back.  Eventually you will begin to relax and drift off into sleep.

I also like to use my simplified version of the yoga nidra.  I start by meditating on my breath and then I move my focus down to my throat and through the joints of my right arm.  With each new breath I focus on the next joint.  I focus on each joint in each of my fingers. I go back up my right arm and down my left, back up my left arm and down to my heart, lungs and stomach.  Finally I focus on each joint in my right leg and foot, then back up and down into my left.  Take it slow and if your mind wanders come back to the last joint you focused on.  I rarely make it through the entire body before I’m out.

Quit caffeine by noon.  I like a little caffeine in the morning, but I always try to refrain from ingesting it after lunch.  If your wired from drinking 20 cups of coffee, it’s going to be close to impossible to fall asleep and get a good night of rest.  If you can’t sleep, start cutting out the caffeine.

8. Journal before you go to bed

Journaling is a great way to get things off of your mind.  Once it is out of your head and on a piece of paper you stop worrying about it.  Start a journal and write down your days successes and failures.  What did you learn today? What do you hope to get done tomorrow?  Don’t make it complicated.  Just make it a habit to write for 10 minutes before you go to sleep and notice the difference.  Dump what’s on your mind.  Let go of your worries.

9. Get your blood flowing

If I’m still feeling a bit groggy after I get up, get dressed, turn on my music and drink some water, I like to do some jumping jacks or sprint up and down my hallway.  Once you get the blood flowing to your brain it tends to be easier to stay up.  Do something physical for 1 to 2 minutes and you will be pumped up and ready to conquer the day.

10. Get up before you go to sleep

Okay.  Now you have your day planned out and you’ve set all of your props for the next morning.  It’s not over.  The best way to ensure that you will actually get up  and follow the morning routine is to practice it the night before.  Imagine yourself waking up to the sound of your alarm with a smile on your face.  Walk yourself through the entire procedure of getting out of bed, putting on your clothes, turning on the lights, cranking up the music, shutting off your alarm, drinking some water, and getting pumped up for the day.  Imagine it a few times.  Better yet set your alarm for 5 minutes, get in bed and then when it goes off, walk through the whole procedure.

This might sound ridiculous, but if you are serious about waking up early, on time and without 20 smacks of the snooze, then practice makes perfect.  This is how an athlete prepares for the game, and this is how you can prepare for getting up early and having an amazing day filled with joy and productivity.

Go get ‘em

I hope that this long-winded post was helpful.  For many of us, waking up early can be a challenge.  With some effort and experimentation you can be up before the birds and working on what’s most important to you.

If waking up early is easy for you, then pass this along to someone who needs it.  If you have any other tips or tricks, please leave them in the comments below.

 


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“I Don’t Have Enough Money,” is No Excuse.

Cash

But really, I don’t have enough money to make this album, to write this book, to shoot this film.  Maybe I could have bought that excuse 50 years ago (if I were alive), but even then it would have been a claim to a lack of resources. And a lack of resources is never a good enough answer for why you did not do something.

Claims to a Lack of Resources

  • Don’t have enough Money
  • Don’t have enough Time
  • Don’t have enough Connections
  • Don’t have enough Experience
  • Don’t have the right Technology

What you are really lacking is resourcefulness.  If you are resourceful enough you can always find a way to fund your project and to support yourself while you’re doing it.  You can always move things around and make sacrifices to find the time.  Resourcefulness is where your real power resides.

Resourcefulness is that emotional state of being confident, playful, passionate and certain that you will find a way no matter what.  (Check out Anthony Robbins’ TED Talk for a more eloquent description.)

Steve Jobs was Resourceful

Steve Jobs started Apple with Steve Wozniak from the ground up.  When he was booted by his own board he didn’t quit.  Steve got resourceful and started NeXT and Pixar.  Pixar grew into the number one animation studio in the industry.  When NeXT was acquired by Apple in 1996, Steve worked himself back into the position of C.E.O.  He then headed the creation of the iPod, iPhone and iPad, which have completely changed the way we interact with technology and our world.

At each step of the way Steve Jobs could have given up and claimed that he lacked the resources to go forward.  At the start of it all, he could have cited that he didn’t have the finances or experience to create a personal computer company.  When he was booted from Apple, he could have given up in embarrassment.  When he was faced with cancer and the knowledge of his limited time left on this earth, he could have left Apple to spend his days in solitude with his family.

But Steve was a driven man.  It appears that his lack of resources were a driving force instead of a stifling one.  He used limitations as a way to challenge his sense of resourcefulness and as a chance to grow.

My Current Attempt at Resourcefulness

As you may know from my last post, I’m planning on finishing a documentary on the history of my home town of Yankee Lake in the next four months, traveling the country while working on the road come March, and moving to California in August.  All of these are going to require a fair amount of time and money to accomplish.  A lack of time and money both appear to be great reasons to give up on these dreams.  But if I can pull off some resourcefulness, I know I can make them all happen.

My biggest concern right now is finances.  Here is a list of some ways that I’m going to flex my resourcefulness muscle.

  • Sell most of what I own on eBay, Craigslist and Amazon (not going to need this stuff when I’m on the road.)
  • Hold an online Fundraiser for the documentary (You can check it out here.)
  • Have a Fundraiser Buffet for the documentary
  • Take on a few side projects for pay while editing the movie
  • Cut back on all expenses and spending the bare minimum to work and live (Bye bye Netflix…)
  • Attempt to sell the Mud Trucks & Beer DVD that I made last year to Netflix and PBS.

I think that the key to being resourceful is to be flexible and to adapt.  It’s also having that drive and passion for what you do, enough of it that you can push through those times of doubt.  You need to want it bad enough, so that you can get yourself into that state of resourcefulness.

Don’t let a claim to a lack of resources stop you from living out your passions.  Let us know what you are going to do to be more resourceful.  How can you leverage or create the resources that you need to make your dreams happen? (How can I talk about this stuff without sounding so cheesy?)


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Living Your Passions – A Manifesto

Yosemite Road

Have you ever had a big dream, like dropping everything and traveling the world? Like quitting your job and starting a business to follow your passions? Like becoming a rock star or a filmmaker? You know that if you put all of your energy into living your dreams that you can make them happen. That living out your passions will be worth all of the short-term suffering and poverty. I mean anything is possible. We’ve sent people to the moon and back, right?

So you start to plan your break from the status quo. You do some research and buy all of the gear you need. It’s time to make the plunge and go for it. When is now a better time?

Then fear strikes like a bolt of lightning. All of the pain of uncertainty comes rushing in. All of your past failures rear their ugly heads and block out all hope of success. The venom of fear is strong. It tightens your chest, clouds your thoughts and impairs your vision.
Soon your current life begins to look a lot better. You’d rather slog through the mundane and secure then face the possibility of failure. You put that guitar back in the case and hide it under the bed. You strike all mentions of your big trip from Facebook. You sell your camera for less than what you paid.

It’s all chalked up to a couple of rash decisions. I mean, you have a life here and people are counting on you to stay the same.

Don’t lie to yourself.

These weren’t rash decisions. They were probably based on dreams you’ve had since you were a child. But you’ve pushed them down into the dark corners of your soul to escape the ridicule of the rest of the world. Your dreams have been shifted to shames, as you’ve been taught again and again that you should work hard in school to get a job that pays the bills, so you can start a family, and if you live long enough, and save enough money, then maybe, just maybe, you can retire and play golf in Florida, until you lose mobility and have to resign your life to a bed in a nursing home. That’s the promise of the safe life. And some collective force, based in fear, causes us to accept it as our best option for a happy life.

Well, I think it’s bullshit!

This is my manifesto for changing a life of the mundane into a life of passion. Yeah, I’m afraid. Yes, I’ve made excuses for avoiding a change in the past. I’ve made plans for living out my passions and bailed on them to take on work that I know, that comes easy to me, that pays the bills, but work that is not satisfying, and that has no relation to my passions.

So here are some of the dreams that I am going to take action on in the coming year:

  • First, I’m going to do my best to blog every week. I want to write more and this is one of the easiest ways to start the habit.
  • I’m going to complete my applications for MFA programs in film at USC, UCLA and Stanford.
  • I’m going to do my best to raise enough money to finish a documentary of my home town of Yankee Lake.
  • I am going to sell off most of what I own, keeping only what I need to live and work out of my car.
  • In March I’m going to SXSW (South by Southwest), a film, music and interactive festival.
  • Then my plan is to work on the road and travel the U.S. until August.
  • After my travels, I’ll settle in LA or San Francisco, where I’ll go to grad school if I get accepted, or go straight to doing more of the work that I care about.
  • I will save money to travel overseas, to go on adventures and make videos.

I’ll be sure to make occasional posts, letting you know where I am in the process. I expect you to ridicule me if I fail to follow through, and to not tell me “it’s okay” if I make excuses for why I’m not following through. Any encouragement to push through the fear is welcome. I know it’s going to be challenging, but I’m committed to making my dreams happen, and I’d love to give you any tips that I discover along the way.

If you have any dreams that you’ve been putting off, maybe this is the time to commit to making them happen. Together we can change our ordinary lives into outstanding ones. We can be there for each other when the fear gets too much. We can share our experiences and inspire others to live their legends.

Don’t wait until you’re too old or too afraid to do something about it. After you’re done reading this, go do at least one thing to get you started on your journey. If you’re not sure what to do, I suggest reading one of these short and inspiring books.

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
The War of Art by Steven Pressfield


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How to create something remarkable

Get started now!

Most people get an idea and then stop.  They think, “Hey, I better do some research before I get started.  I don’t want to jump into this without knowing everything about this subject.”  And hey, with the good ol’ World Wide Web, full of endless information and examples to model, many of us are quickly consumed by “learning more”.  Why? Because it’s less scary to learn about how to do something than it is to take the risk and go for it.

If you want to create, then don’t wait.  You must start now!

In most cases the best way to learn is to do.  If you want to be a writer then write.  You can read books on writing along the way.  You can interview writers and ask for tips.  You can take writing classes and receive constructive criticism.  But you can’t be a writer until you write.  And you can’t write a thought provoking and inspiring book until you write a boring ass wannabe book.

So why wait?  Start writing today and you will be a little better tomorrow.  Plus, all of those books and classes that your frightened mind says you should read and take first will make much more sense in the context of your creative habit.

Hey, just take me for example.  I’m not a great writer or blogger, but I’m done waiting.  If I make writing a habit and strive to improve each day, then I’m much closer to creating something remarkable than if I just read 20 books on writing and blogging.

This doesn’t only apply to writing.  If you want to turn any idea into a reality then you must take action today.

So don’t wait.  Get out there and create.


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Philippe Petit: Man on Wire

Man on WireI just watched this brilliant documentary, directed by James Marsh, called Man on Wire. I’ve known about it for quite a while now (maybe 2 years), but it has taken me until now to finally bring it into my life. I’d probably still be putting it off were I not to come across it at the local library.

Man on Wire is the story of Philippe Petit’s courageous and illegal wire dance between the World Trade Center towers. It covers the duration between Petit’s infection with this bold plan, up to his pulling it off on August 7th, 1974.

The documentary does a great job of cutting between two time-lines, both of which build the suspense and end in Petit’s climactic wire walk. One time-line follows his early passion for tight-rope walking, and some of his first big feats. These include high wire walking between the towers of the Notre Dame Cathedral and walking between two pylons of the Sydney Harbor Bridge. This story line culminates with his plans to walk between the WTC towers. The second time-line, which is inter-cut with the first, starts much closer to the actual date of his WTC wire walk. It goes through the tension filled details of pulling off the plan, up until the moment of Petit’s stunning wire walk.

This thrilling documentary brings to life the limitless possibilities of human passion in action. It amazes me how one can overcome the fear involved in such a daring act. How one can bring so much focus to the moment, and shut out the panic that would lead most to certain death. Man on Wire will remind you that you can make your dreams come true. With enough passion, obsession, and well thought action, just about anything is possible. I mean, we’ve put people on the moon, right?

This is just an all around great documentary and story. I definitely recommend it! If you don’t trust my judgment, it did win the 2008 Sundance Grand Jury Prize and an Academy Award for Best Documentary. So just check it out here.

What vision are you going to make come true?


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